My father is my hero

Submitted byPhilly Ricketts

My story tells of an event that took place many years ago. My father was a policeman in New York City when I was very young. He rarely talks about the experience, and he would never answer my questions about saving people’s lives or dangerous situations he was in. He retired from the police force when I was 5, after 20 years’ service. A little over a decade later, after numerous attempts to find out about his time as a policeman, I found some papers in a box in our garage. They included a report that my father had typed after an incident in 1975. He and his partner responded to a call stating that a convenience store was being robbed. My father went to the back, while the other officer stayed near the front of the store. One of the men robbing the store pulled out a gun when my father confronted him. My father also had his gun out, and there was a stand off near the cashier. The man robbing the store soon grabbed the person nearest to him, who happened to be a little girl of about 3, and he shouted at my father to drop his gun or he would shoot the girl. My father had told me that one of the most important rules he learned was that a policeman should never drop his gun. So it was with trepidation and a pounding heart that I continued reading, not knowing what had occurred. Would my father put his gun down and risk his own life and that of his partner? Or would be continue to tell the robber to put his gun down and risk the life of the little girl?

In the end, my father’s report said that he dropped his gun. The robber then clung onto the money he had taken from the till and ran out of the store with his accomplice. But on the way, he shot the other officer in the chest when he tried to stop him. After reading the report, I asked my father about it, and this time he did talk to me. I asked him why, if he was forbidden to put down his gun, he did. He said that when the robber grabbed the little girl, all he could think of was me, since I was about the same age at the time. He said that he just couldn’t risk the girl being killed as a result of refusing to put his own life in danger. He said he’d never be able to face the little girl’s parents if she died. Of course, it can be argued that my father risked the lives of all the people in the store, including his own and his partner’s, and that the robber could still have shot the little girl, which is probably why the rule for a policeman not to drop his gun was made. And he should have been disciplined for his actions, although he never told me if he was. But I can’t help thinking how brave my father was to make the split-second decision he did, despite the rule. As a mother myself now, I can fully understand his decision, and if I was the mother of a little girl facing the same situation, I would be forever grateful to anyone who did the same for me and my child. The robber wanted more than anything to get away, and as soon as my father put down his gun, the robber pushed the girl away and ran off. It was only when he was confronted at the door by another officer that he pulled the trigger. Unfortunately for that officer, he was on the receiving end of that shot. He spent a long time in hospital, and his recovery was very tough. But thankfully he survived. I believe that my father still feels responsible for the pain his partner suffered, and I often wonder if he wishes he’d done anything differently.

My hero is my father. He always has been, and I wish I was half as brave as he is. I felt compelled to tell this story not only as a small tribute to my father, but also to make others stop and think just how difficult it is to work as a first responder. Obviously, many of these brave men and women risk their lives to save others. But it’s more than that. In certain circumstances, every choice, no matter how small and no matter which job as a first responder it applies to, could have potentially life-changing consequences for the first responder as well as for those they seek to help, and those choices often have to be made without any time for reflection. Thank you to all first responders who not only care enough to do these kinds of jobs and who risk their lives for strangers, but who also inevitably open themselves up to feelings of guilt and ‘what ifs’ when things go wrong.

police officers are always on duty

Submitted bypenny Martin

It was on a Saturday night in 1993 my husband, myself and our friends were out at a local restaurant for the evening. It was about 1:00 am and the 4 of us decided to leave and go home. I was the driver, my husband Dave (who at the time was a police officer with the Timmins police now with the O.P.P.) was in the passenger seat, friends Murray and Shelley Mcgee (Murray also and still a Timmins police officer) were in the back seat.

I was driving up Airport Road when someone at the side of the road was waiving frantically to stop us. I didn’t see what was going on so I kept driving when me husband yelled “stop the car somethings wrong.” I pulled to the side and they said “someone is laying on the road.” When they starting walking towards her, they noticed what looked like water on the road running down, they quickly realized it was blood and screamed at me to call 911.

What we had actually come upon was a pedestrian and a motorcycle accident. When Dave and Murray approached the pedestrian it will easy to see that her leg had been severed below the knee and Dave, wearing his favorite Montreal canadian t-shirt quickly removed it and he and Murray administered a tornique to stop the bleeding. The doctors report on call that evening stated the “actions taken by Const. Martin and Const. Mcgee in regards to the injuries and the speed and manner in which they applied the tourniquet and first aid saved the life of the pedestrian as she would have bleed to death.” One stayed with her and the other helped the motorcycle victim he had a broken tibia and fibia.

When the ambulance arrived the 2 patients were so critical that Murray drove the ambulance and Dave helped the parmedics stablize the accident victims. After many hours at the hospital and several more at the office writing reports they were able to go home. They were both awared for their action and dedication a commendation for the “most Venerable Order of the Hospital of St John of Jerusalem signed by the president and the provincial commisioner, Ontario Counsel.

When Fighting Fires Isn’t Enough

Submitted by: Dave Xander

Jeff Lorson is the hero in my story. Jeff is a Lt. with the Orrville, Ohio Fire Department and has been a firefighter for over 35 years. I’m proud to say that I worked with Jeff in the late ’70s and early 80’s, but it is what he has accomplished since then that puts him in a class by himself. As firefighters, we often see people in need and wish there was more we could do to help. Jeff Lorson saw a need and took action. Twenty years ago, Jeff organized the first Orrville Fire Department food drive so that no family in the community would be without a special holiday meal. The effort has grown over the years and now serves over 200 families. Jeff’s enthusiasm is contagious and spills over to the community where people donate to fill the fireboots in local businesses and schools, or volunteer to help the firefighters deliver all of the food baskets. Recently, the Orrville Fire Department partnered with the Salvation Army so that the program could reach even more people. The Salvation Army is responsible for identify families in need and the Orrville Fire Department makes sure the need is filled.

Orrville is a “paid on call” department, so firefighters have regular jobs to support their families. In Jeff’s case, he also operates an auto detailing business on the side in addition to his full time job. Still, Jeff finds time to meet with the leaders of local businesses to solicit their support in the annual food drive. Jeff’s work was recognized in 2008 when he was named Orrville’s “Citizen of the Year.”

Firefighters like Jeff Lorson recognize that fighting fires is not enough. Jeff saw a need and rallied his fellow firefighters to support the cause. Jeff is the type of firefighter you want by your side battling a fire, but his passion is also a key to battling hunger in the community.

“You Just Never Know”

Submitted byWayne Burke

Hey Dave… Here’s a story with a different twist for you… Firstly, I’ve never considered myself a hero, and all I did as an RCMP officer for 26 1/2 years across this great country of ours, was my job, and what I was trained to do… However, I still thought you might enjoy this “read”, as it means a lot to me…

As a policeman, fireman, etc., in most cases, we really never know if or how we may have positively affected the lives of those we encounter during our careers… As a “First Responder”, it’s almost like the “Hit & Run” syndrome, where you do what you have to do, and then there’s a good chance you may never see that person(s) again in your life… Well, just the opposite happen to me one day, and it touched me like I had never been touched in my career…

I spent 10 years posted in Newfoundland (1988 – 1998…), and in 1998, was transferred to St. George, NB… From 1988 to 1991, I was posted in the small town of Springdale, about an hour west of Grand Falls, NF…

Shortly after moving to St. George, NB, one day I was working and found myself in the local bank, dressed in uniform… All of a sudden I felt a tap on my shoulder… I turned and looked, and there was a young man standing there… He was in his mid 20’s, and I KNEW the face was familiar to me…

Hello Cst. Burke he said… I quickly replied, “I know your face, but can’t put a name to it right now”… My name is ****** and I’m from Kingspoint, NF… Kingspoint being a small village near Springdale… Yes, I said, now I remember you, although it was vague in my mind at the time… “What brings you to St. George” I asked… “Well, you’re partially responsible” he answered… Of course I was perplexed by his answer… “How so” I asked… He went on to explain, and I think I began to “well up” as he reached the end of his story…

“Do you recall the time you charged me with assault in Springdale??? I was at a high school dance, had gotten into a fight, and hung a pretty good licken on the guy” he said in his Newfoundland accent… “And up to that point, you had also charged me a few times for driving recklessly around the area”… “Well, the night of the assault, you took me to your office, and gave me the best fatherly lecture I’d ever received… You told me that it was time for me to grow up, and start to realize that if I didn’t change, I wasn’t going to amount to anything in life”… And he went on to explain that in great detail…

He added; “You drove me home later that night, and for the next few weeks, I started to think and realize that you were absolutely right… That if I didn’t make some drastic changes in my lifestyle, stop all the partying and foolishness, I was going to amount to nothing and be a nobody… So I made a decision that it was time to change… Today, I’m a licensed commercial diver, I work on a large Salmon compound just outside of St. George, and I’m married to a great gal and have one child… And as far as I’m concerned, I owe a good portion of my success to you, and that talk you gave me that night”…

Like I said, I began to tear up, and could hardly speak… We chatted a little longer, each did our banking business, shook hands and went on our way… I continued to encounter the young man in my travels and duties in the St. George area, and saw that he is in fact a fine young man with a great career and a great family…

This may be one of the few or only incidents or times in my career, when I actually got to witness that I had in fact had a positive influence on another human being, and maybe helped make their life a little bit better… I don’t get the opportunity to share this story very often, or with many folks, so I guess I’m taking advantage of your contest to do just that, ha!!!

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Like I said, I don’t consider myself a hero for this, or any other of the countless endeavors I took on during my long career, but I thought you might enjoy my story… That aside, and having been there once before, I’d also LOVE to win the trip to Punta Cana, ha!!! And as per the chat we had back stage in Charlottetown this summer Dave, good luck with the Caribbean shows, and your career… All your ongoing success is the fruit of your hard work over the years, and couldn’t have happened to a nicer guy… Cheers…

Wayne…

Thank you.

Submitted byGraham Johnston

I caught your excellent show at the deCoste Centre in Pictou, Nova Scotia last night and your 911 Song touched a nerve. It had special meaning for me. I lost a teen brother, two young sons, and all three of my baby grandchildren in three separate highway crashes, none of whom made it alive from the scene to the hospital.

There were no family or friends with them in their final moments on the highway; no one familiar to reassure and comfort them. So I like to think that maybe, in their final moments, some found comfort in a friendly face, perhaps a gentle touch or reassuring words from a first responder.

Thank you for a very moving song saluting first responders- those nameless, faceless unsung heroes and angels such as 911 dispatchers, police, ambulance, and firefighters (especially volunteers). Let’s not forget the physicians and nurses who work their magic in hospital Emerg / ICU / CCU units who, all too often, are among those we take for granted in times of tragedy and crisis.

Please don’t enter me in the contest, I just wanted to take this opportunity to say thanks for the great song, and to personally pay a long-overdue tribute to all those who are there when we need them in times of crisis.

I am a Firefighter

Submitted byMatthew Landry

I have been in the service for over eight and half years. I, like all first responders should hear this excellent song and video.

Family

Submitted byRyland McNutt

This song definitely touches my family as we are a list of first responders. My grandfather was one of the founding members of the Bible Hill Fire Brigade in 1946. Then once my father was of age he joined the same brigade before joining the DND Fire Service to serve the Station in Debert. My other grandfather was also a fire fighter in Brooklyn Hants County. Once my mother met my father and they moved to Debert NS they both joined the Debert Fire Brigade. Once the base closed and we moved back to Bible Hill my father and mother both joined Bible Hill. Once I was 19 I also started my fire service time with Bible Hill therefore keeping it a family thing. After I returned from college studying Police Foundations in Ottawa I joined the Special Hazards Response Unit. A group that does Haz Mat calls as well as Water rescue, Confined Space and High Angle rescue. I am soon Hoping to join the ranks of the RCMP. As you can tell helping people is very much a family thing,

Heroes Among Us . .

Submitted by: Donna Noble

On April 9, 2008 my life was changed forever when my only child, my daughter Jennifer (Jenny), was killed in a school bus/gravel truck accident at the age of 17 (2 months short of graduation).

Upon arrival to work that morning at the Fire Department (Secretary, Fire Prevention Coordinator and as required, Firefighter) I learned of the accident. Call it mother’s intuition, but right away I knew it was her bus and that she was gone from me (us) forever. Jenny was like a daughter to most of the members. She was actively involved in the fire department including community functions and fire practices. She looked forwarding to spending time at the hall whether it was just at my desk or sitting in on discussions.  The purpose/impact that emergency services do to the community became more in perspective.

Just over a month after Jenny’s accident I went back as an active member on the fire trucks believing that I couldn’t help her but maybe I can help someone else.  As the Fire Prevention Coordinator I speak to between 600 – 800 students in any given year. In my heart I believe something good will come out of this tragedy – it just may take time. If I can help someone through my work, her death was not in vain. She will live on in everyone who knew her or hear her story.

The days since have been challenging, however, it is because of the support of this and surrounding volunteer fire departments (as well as RCMP and Ambulance Service), I am able to continue doing what I love and I know she was proud of. Your video definitely has done it justice. It touches my hear every time I watch it. Thank you for all you have done and to the members of Emergency Services everywhere, people just like you and I, who are there for those who need help, including their own.

Thank you.

Submitted byShaun

Sorry folks, to protect the identity of fellow officers, no names or places in this story.

It is not often that people recognize police/fire/EMS for the work they do. It is true, we have all sworn an oath to protect Life, property and peace.

Just last week I was sent to a gun call involving a male walking across the parking lot of a local restaurant with a rifle. My Sgt was the first on scene. He had stopped a vehicle (while on foot) fleeing the parking lot of the restaurant, believing it to be the suspect with the rifle. I was on scene approximately 30 seconds later. Being the first patrol car on scene I blocked the suspect vehicle with my van. As I proceeded to exit my van and took position with the Sgt behind the vehicle I drew my pistol. I walked behind my van and made my way next to the Sgt where we performed a high risk take down. The driver turned out not to be the suspect with the rifle.

At the time of the incident I was running on instinct/training. I had no emotion or fear (all that comes after you got the guy in cuffs, while you are sitting in your patrol car. That’s when you get the shakes). After the fact I got the holy shit moment when I realized the magnitude of the call. I had driven my van directly in front of a suspect car whom I believed to be in the possession of a rifle. I then stood behind the car with my Sgt, exposed to any rounds coming from the vehicle. Having thought about the matter for a few days now I have come to realize a few things. It is only a few who have the courage (may be it is stupidity, and most likely is) to stand between a gunman the hundreds of innocent citizens who were driving on (a nameless street) that day. Also, despite all else, I placed my faith, my life in the hands of the man next to me. He did not let me down. I would walk with him through any door, anytime, anywhere.

Not many understand this way of thinking, the sense of duty an officer has to his teammates and the public. I thought you captured that way of thinking quite well. Good job!

Everyday Heroes

Submitted by: Nevin Coulstring

Everyday Heroes is such a true statement, and I have a best friend that is the president of the Enfield Volunteer fire dept. The stories he shared with me and acts of heroism of his fellow first responders lead me to ask one question. Why? Why would you want to put your self in harms way, or experience the sight and sounds of others suffering. His reply was to give hope and make a difference. And as I was about to ask what he gets out of it he says. ” No drug or substance in the world can give you the spiritual warmth in side your heart when you accomplish the task of saving lives. Not always successful but with training and the ability we do make a difference. I salute you John Mettam, if my health had been different I would likely stand along side with you.

I am proud of you all, and I salute you all.

Nevin Coulstring